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Who Do You Envy?

I recently listened to the Rich Roll podcast featuring Gretchen Rubin, author of The Happiness Project (link to podcast).

Early in the interview she posed a question that really piqued my interest – “Who do you envy?”

The question proposed by Gretchen points to what the person who is envied is, does, or has over the person envying. Oftentimes, we ask questions about regrets or what we want only for folks (myself included) to say we have no regrets or we don’t really want anything more than what we have (beyond the usual dreams). Personally, I can say there are a fair number of things I want. However, the thought of who I envy really draws out a deeper perspective. I ask why.

Thinking about this, I envy:
  • Elon Musk, James Dyson, JK Rowling, David Beckham, Jack Ma. I envy them for their remarkable success. Success that was achieved by overcoming incredible failures and adversity. They stayed true to their beliefs and emerged victorious.
  • My older brother and my best bud for raising beautiful families with their equally amazing spouses.
This is the immediate list that comes to mind. However, I’m sure there are many more.

Who do you envy? Why?

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