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Aiming My Ninja Stars: Goals for 2015 (Reflections Part 3 of 3)

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Over the last couple weeks to close out 2014, I wrote:
Now, we’re onto the final chapter of the 3-part series. This is tricky one only because, well, it’s like making public declarations of my intentions. If I fail, again, it’s public. There’s that accountability factor. Okay, so focusing on the short (for 2015) and long-term goals (beyond)...

Within Distance – the Year of 2015

Continue Hacking.

“Hacking” here is admittedly broad as I’m referring to hacking in the programming sense and in general business. Till I find that startup that keeps me going, I’m aiming to push a new idea out every 30-60 days (with half that time devoted to customer discovery, build out, launch, and the other half towards marketing and growth).

If an idea doesn’t see much traction, I learn and move on. After I spoke to one of the cofounders of Hired.com this idea really resonated with me, and was recently suggested to me by another entrepreneur I’ve come to know well.

Reduce the “No.”

For whatever reason, I was life hacking (yes, hacking my life) trying to become more direct, and I surprisingly introduced just “No.” as a response to others. That is, just saying, “No.” instead of saying, “Well this is why this might be a better way…” or “I don’t see it this way.” This is more apparent in verbal conversations.

I remember the Allison Gilmore, Director of the PhD program at Emory’s Goizueta Business School (also performs Improv), giving my MBA class a session about responses. She taught us how “No” and “No, but” really shut down people. For whatever reason, this flew over my head, and I was doing the opposite. Even “no, but…” would be a better response than the curt “No.”

So I’m tracking when I give the short “no” in hopes of responding in a more positive way. Of course, I’ll throw in a “no” if/ when appropriate.

Stop taking on so much.

I love to help people, but sometimes, that means I say “yes” too much. In light to the above about saying “no”, I need to be able also say, “Sorry, but I can’t do XYZ…”
This past year, I volunteered a lot of time helping other startups, sometimes with little to no compensation. I took these chances as good learning opportunities, but now that I’ve got some other opportunities going, my time is that much more valuable. As such, this year will be the year of smarter multi-tasking.

Become a better communicator.

When I say communicator here, I’m also really focusing on the listening part. Late last year, I got some good constructive criticism that I have been… very energetic to different opinions. I’ve done a pretty bad job at keeping my emotions out of specific subjects, and I’m aiming to parse out the emotions in favor of patience and understanding.

Roger Fisher and William Ury’s Getting To Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In suggests that I take more of an interest-view rather than positional. In future disagreements (or just differing opinions), I’ll be more cognizant of others’ viewpoints (diversity is good). Especially where others may be affected by emotional attachments, it’s best for me to realize that it’s not oftentimes a personal attack. So I’ll need to take a step back, get a better understanding as to why, and make a mature approach from there.

Attend two startup events a month.

I used to be good at this – taking the time to attend Atlanta Startup Village meet-ups or other gatherings. However, I made excuses the second half of last year, and just stopped. This year, going to start attending startup events around Atlanta more often.
Goal is twice a month and make genuine connections.

Volunteer at least twice every quarter.

I’ll probably get back into Habitat for Humanity as the charity/ volunteer organization. I like what they do, their approach, and I like the skills and lessons I get out of each build.

Be a better Son, Brother, Uncle, Friend, Mentor.

Probably the most important one, but this is everlasting… This past Christmas and New Year’s, I got to spend with my immediate family and grandparents down in Florida. I couldn’t help but take a pause every so often to see my family laughing and walking together, and it was an amazing feeling to be a part of that. 

Add to that, every minute I spend with my little niece my love for her grows exponentially. It’s amazing just watching her develop. I’m looking forward to strengthening my relationship to everyone in my family, and my good friends.

Stopping biting my finger nails!

This needs no explanation other than it’s a bad habit. There. That was easy. Next!

Friggin’ lift 315 lbs on the barbell bench press.

Just because three plates is bad ass territory.

Also, yesterday, I just stunted a lot of good growth by straining my hamstring at a soccer game. Why? Because of poor warm-ups. Why? Because I was late to the game? Why? Because traffic was terrible. Why? Because I, Daryl Lu, failed to leave for the game on time from work. There. It’s my fault. So, I also need to stick to my schedule to prevent lateness which can prevent warming up which can cause hamstring strains.

Beyond the Horizon (2016 and Beyond)

Be featured in TechCrunch, or other national publication.

I’d like to have a startup be featured in TechCrunch… just to have that daily newsletter come into my Gmail with my startup’s name on it. Or maybe have an article republished on Entrepreneur.com or Inc.com… that’d be cool.

Build a lasting startup with at least $1MM in recurring monthly revenue.

$1MM’s a “wow” number, and I think that’d be sufficient to have a decent-sized startup team to lead to even greater.

Give a TED Talk, or other industry conference.

I’m sure as part of my journey, there’s going to be something enlightening that no one else has talked about yet, or maybe I’ll expound or counter on another.

Stepping Forward Now…

Obviously that even though this is part 3 of the Reflections 3-part series, like any good book or movie, it’s really just a glimpse of things to come. Hopefully, this post whets your appetite for your own goals both short and long-term.

Also, if you actually want to learn how to throw Ninja Stars, check out this YouTube video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_w6T4nO-KA

Happy New Year! Cheers! Entrepreneurial Ninja. Out.

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